When the dildo is too small I know it can be an absolute bummer! This scenario completely sucks, and can really put a damper on things. Though disappointing, this does not have to be the end of the road. Here are a few tips and tricks I’ve picked up over the years that may help when the dildo is too small.

The first step is to realize that size really isn’t everything. A smaller dildo can still bring plenty of pleasure and satisfaction, but remembering that may take a bit of re-framing and perspective. For me, reframing the situation to view it as an opportunity for greater exploration and creative play time rather than just accepting disappointment has been a great way to help me move on from such instances.

Sometimes trying some different angles or positions can also be really effective. Trying different angles can be particularly helpful when playing solo, as it allows you to experience different types of stimulation. And, if you’re exploring with a partner, it’s both a great way to add a level of entertainment and make the most out of the current situation.

Another useful tip is to use a larger toy in addition to your smaller dildo. This is especially helpful for those that love fullness and stretching sensations. Adding an extra toy or two can also help to both enhance the experience, and can be used to target specific areas and spots for a more intense exploration.

Think outside the box (or inside the toy box!) and explore any accessories or lubes that would go great with your smaller toy. Things like vibrators, cock rings, or remote-controlled toys can take a basic toy to the next level. And the right lube can exponentially enhance the experience, as it can add warmth and help to heighten sensation.

Finally, accept that sometimes the dildo you want just isn’t going to be available, which is totally okay! It’s totally normal to want to make every experience a great one, but that doesn’t always happen. Embrace the fact that sometimes things don’t go as planned, and choose to be vulnerable and curious about these unplanned moments.

So, while it can be a real bummer when the dildo is just too small, there are definitely still a few tricks up our sleeve! Depending on the person and specific situation, a smaller dildo doesn’t have to mean that the party is over. With a bit of creativity, flexibility, and openness, you can still make the most of every situation – no matter what size the dildo may (or may not) be!

In addition to the above tips, sex toys there are also a few other tactics you can explore when the dildo is too small. Gently rocking back and forth can help create an enhanced sensation that you may not have expected. Desensitizing sprays can also help make a smaller toy more comfortable, allowing you to embrace the unique sensation of a smaller shape.

The third tactic to explore is using heated or cooled sex toys. This can create some truly incredible sensations, and provides a different twist to the usual, and, in this case, smaller, experience. Applying some warming or cooling lube or even just a dab of lube to the surface of a smaller toy before use can also help to adjust the temperature for added sensation.

Finally, introducing elements of bondage or using blindfolds can be helpful when the dildo is too small. When a partner is blindfolded, they can’t tell how big the toy is and can focus entirely on sensation. Additionally, since smaller toys tend to fit easier within the body or in tight spots, adding a bit of bondage can help to provide a more intense sensation.

When the dildo is too small, it can be really easy to feel discouraged or disappointed. But, that doesn’t have to be the end of the story. By remembering that size isn’t everything, exploring different angles or positions, using larger toys with smaller ones, introducing accessories or lubes, surrendering to the experience, and exploring temperature, bondage, and blindfolds, a smaller toy can still bring plenty of pleasure! So, don’t give up just yet – with a bit of creativity, the possibilities are endless!