I’ve recently been doing a lot of research on different ways that male can masturbate. It’s been eye-opening and exciting! Before this, I have been using the same old technique since I was 14. So here’s what I’ve learnt about the different ways in which you can spruce up your masturbation game.
The first way to masturbate that I’ve tried is the classic way of just using your hands. This is perhaps the most obvious and most popular method of how to masturbate and I think it’s a great starting point. I like to take my time and explore my body with my hands. I find myself creating different shapes and speeds with each hand, depending on what feels best.
The second way to masturbate is using a male masturbator. Male masturbators can offer new and more intense stimulation and they range in size, shape and intensity. They can also be used with lube to enhance the sensations and can be used for both vaginal and anal play. I prefer an external male masturbator, vibrators because I find that the extra pressure is really enjoyable.
The third way to masturbate is by using a vibrator. A vibrator – whether it’s a wand, pocket rocket or bullet type – can be used alone or with a partner. It’s great for exploring your erogenous zones and creating different sensations. My favourite way to use it is to hold it against my penis while I masturbate with my hand. The vibrations really increase the intensity and pleasure.
The fourth way to masturbate is to use a lubricant. I only recently discovered how awesome lube can be when it comes to self-pleasure. It can be used to create different sensations and it also helps to reduce friction so it can make your sessions more enjoyable. I use a water-based lube for an extra slick feeling.
The fifth way to masturbate is by using an adult toy. I always thought adult toys were intimidated, but I was wrong. There’s a lot of different types of male sex toys out there – including cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps and even dildos! I’m still learning to explore these kinds of products, but even just doing a bit of research into them has already been really exciting.
The sixth way to masturbate is to use an anal toy. Anal toys can be used in both solo and partner play and they can create incredible sensations. I recently got myself an anal beads, and I found that the added pressure of having my anus filled up was really intense.
The seventh way to masturbate is with the ‘edging’ technique. This involves bringing yourself close to the point of orgasm and then stopping. Then, when you’re ready, you repeat this process until you finally ejaculate. This can help to create longer and more intense orgasms.
One thing I’ve also discovered is that you don’t necessarily need to stick to these techniques. Experimenting and combining these different methods can be a great way to explore and find things that you like. So I’d really recommend trying out different techniques and finding what works best for you.