For starters, long dildos are only meant for those who are more experienced in this realm. If you’re a beginner, you should skip it. You could injure yourself with a long dildo if you don’t know how to use it properly.
Most importantly, when using a long dildo, you need to make sure you use lubricant. Without it, you’re liable to tear your insides, ouch! That lesson I learnt the hard way…but thankfully I didn’t have to learn it the hard way.
To avoid injury during use, it’s important to be gentle yet confident. Make sure you’re always aroused before using it and only use it in well-lubricated areas. Additionally, it’s important to start slowly. Don’t rush yourself. Anal insertion should be done up to the point of comfort. You shouldn’t take it beyond that.
Another important factor to keep in mind is cleaning. Make sure you wash your dildo after each use so that it remains sterile and hygienic. You don’t want to get any infections! Cleaning is also important before use if you’re switching between orifices.
So, yes, long dildos can be safe, as long as you use them correctly. Now that I’ve gone through the basics, let’s talk about the importance of communication.
Communication is key when it comes to taking things to the next level. Make sure to talk with your partner and listen to them about what they want. They might not be comfortable with you pushing them out of their comfort zone. There’s no sense in pushing someone to use a long dildo if they don’t want to.
Additionally, make sure to discuss boundaries. You both should agree on specific rules about who parties can and cannot do. If you don’t communicate these boundaries, you can wind up pushing each other further than either of you intended.
Now let’s talk about exploring your fantasies and fantasies of your partner. If it involves a long dildo, this means exploring your body or someone else’s body in an extremely intimate way. It’s important to ask your partner if they’re comfortable with that. Once you both agree, it’s open season and you can both explore each other as much as you’d like.
Also, it’s important to choose the right material. It’s essential to find something that is comfortable and non-irritating for your body. You might want to opt for something made of silicone as it feels close to the human body and is easy to clean and sanitize.
Finally, respect should always come first. Respect yourself, your partner, and always take your time. If a part isn’t enjoyable, move on. There’s no rush and no pressure.
Long dildos can be fun if used correctly and safely. However, it’s important to explore it in a way that works for you. You have to respect each other and discover what works together. If done properly, going long will be well worth it!